Our biggest problems arise in our personal relationships. Because we have a whole heap of unvoiced and unfulfilled expectations, warmth and camaraderie become supplanted by anger and blame. We tend to think that a partner has to supply that which we ourselves lack, and so we often involve ourselves in relationships which are debilitating and frustrating, as they are based on sets of conditions and co-dependency, rather than upon mutual appreciation and sharing.
In this Course, we show that Life is a most priceless gift, but if we are to savour the full beauty of this gift we must be able to relate to life. This means that we must develop the ability to relate to ourselves and to those around us in a meaning-full and fulfilling manner.
How Can I Find Fulfillment in my Relationships?
Life revolves around relationships. Therefore, to find fulfilment, we need first to learn a different way of relating ... a way that keeps us in touch with our own values and our deepest aspirations. So often in our relationships we leave ourselves out of the equation ... either by "fitting in" and not speaking up, or by removing ourselves from the relationship altogether.
Discovering the True Way to Relate
By learning how to put ourselves back into the equation our relationships can become transformed into true relationships ... the type of relationships that grow and evolve as we grow, and that remain an enduring source of meaning and fulfilment. In this we must always remember that this is a Journey of Adjustment ... step by step.
The Journey of Adjustment Course
The Journey of Adjustment is a unique Course ... for life. It is unique in the new material shared; in the way in which the material is delivered; the power of the material, the exercises and interaction; the international character of the participants. Because of the practical nature and tools shared in The Journey of Adjustment, you will learn again how to be the Captain of your life and your relationships ... resulting in a life full of powerful action, ownership and meaningful relationships.
You will be guided to find your own insights through dialogue and practice, learn to see the other as a reflection of your own behaviour, a mirror that supports you to improve the quality of your relationships, by changing your own behaviour and thus yourself. You will learn the difference in approaches between men and women and the power that lies within that, including how to use it; how to handle your emotions effectively, stop compromising yourself and to grow from conflict. In this Course you will find the path of your heart, where you can be totally who you are. From insight to action!
Inspired Life Coaching
Key Concepts in this Course
On this course we will give you the general principles that will make any kind of relationship work. We will show you:
- • How to determine what you want out of a relationship with another person.
- • That your own inner being is beautiful and is worth relating to.
- • How to make your fear of relationships work for you.
- • The basic differences between males and females.
- • How to deal with conflict, using both your male and female energies to succeed.
- • The keys to intelligent co-operation between the sexes instead of competing against and blaming each other.
- • How to have effective communication in any relationship.
- • How to change the feeling of futility and hopelessness you often get if you do speak up.
Course Prerequisites
The course requires no prior knowledge or particular standard of education. We start with the basic principles and move forward from there, always remembering that we need a firm foundation to succeed. The Course is experiential: you will find working within a group of like-hearted people a very power-full experience.
eBook
The eBook from which this course is based, previously know as "This Darned Illusive Happiness", is available for download at the Amazon Kindle store:
About Irina Marsh
Irina Marsh is a philosopher by training, a teacher/educator by vocation, and an ICM-accredited transformational coach. She holds a PhD in Ethics, rooted in Aristotle's understanding of the good life: a meaningful life is not something we find by chance, but something we shape through character, conscious choices, and a clear sense of purpose. An Associate Professor teaching communication, ethics, and leadership, she brings together academic depth, professional experience, and a longstanding interest in personal growth and human behaviour.
As facilitator of The Journey of Adjustment, Irina works within the Toltec tradition of the Institute for the Study of Man, where the course was developed through the vision and work of Théun Mares and Elizabeth Schnugh. Irina creates a space that is both reflective and practical, where participants are encouraged to look honestly at themselves, recognise patterns in the way they relate, and begin making the kinds of changes that lead to greater self-awareness and fulfilment.
With warmth and clarity, Irina invites participants onto a path of deeper self-awareness, and living from the heart. Her work is also informed by philosophy, positive psychology and a deep appreciation for symbols, stories, and the deeper patterns of human experience. This gives the course both depth and practicality, supporting participants in gaining meaningful insight and a clearer sense of how to live and relate with purpose and heart.
Course Details
For whom?
The Journey of Adjustment is for anyone who feels called to deepen their understanding of relationships and to grow in their capacity to relate to themselves, to others and to life. Men and women of all ages are welcome. Whether you are facing challenges in your relationships, looking for greater self-awareness, or simply feel a wish to live and relate with more honesty, clarity, and heart, the course offers a supportive and practical space for that exploration.
Where?
The Journey of Adjustment will be held in Bucharest, Romania, at University House (Casa Universitarilor), in the heart of the city. A historic building of the University of Bucharest, dating back to the 1860s, Casa Universitarilor offers a setting of quiet beauty and depth. It is a fitting place for a course devoted to reflection, relationships, and inner change.
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When?
The course takes place from Thursday 9 July to Sunday 12 July 2026. It begins on Thursday at 14:00 and concludes on Sunday evening with a dinner together. An optional follow-up meeting will be held on Tuesday 14 July at 14:00. While optional, it is an important part of the course, as it gives participants time to return to the experience, share what has begun to unfold, and deepen the integration of the work. Often, this space for reflection helps transform insight into something more lasting and real.
Costs
The course fee is €500 per person, including tea, coffee, juice, and light refreshments during the breaks. A set-menu lunch will be arranged each day at a venue close to the course location. This is not included in the course fee and will be paid individually by participants, at a good and accessible price.
As places are limited, early booking is recommended. To register, please use the registration template at the bottom of the page. After receiving your registration, the organiser will contact you by email to arrange payment and guide you through the next steps. A €200 deposit is required at registration to secure your place, and the full fee is due by 20 June 2026.
If a participant is no longer able to attend, the course fee can be refunded, less a €50 administrative fee. In the unlikely event that the course itself needs to be cancelled, participants will be informed as soon as possible. A new date will then be announced, and those who have already registered will be given priority when registration opens again. All course fees paid will be fully refunded. Travel and accommodation costs, however, remain the responsibility of each participant.
Accommodation
Is arranged individually by each participant. Bucharest offers a wide variety of options, including hotels, apartments, and Airbnb, at different price levels. For ease and convenience, we recommend staying in the central area. You may wish to explore options on Booking.com, Airbnb, or Hotels.com for accommodation in central Bucharest.
If you would like to get a feel for the city before booking, or are thinking of staying a little longer, Visit Bucharest and the Bucharest guide on Romania Tourism offer a helpful introduction for international visitors, with ideas on neighbourhoods, attractions, parks, cafés, and places for rest and wellbeing, including Therme Bucharest.
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A note on language
The course will be conducted in English. An intermediate level is helpful, but participants are warmly encouraged to join with their current level of English. What matters most is the willingness to listen, engage, and express what is true for you.
If you feel drawn to this work, and sense that this may be the right time to look more deeply at the way you relate to yourself, to others, and to life, you are warmly invited to join us in Bucharest. Should you wish to take part, please complete the registration template below and begin this Journey of Adjustment with us.
Register
If you would like to register for the course then please complete the form below, and we will be in contact with you.